Marla
Dakes, Ohio, Chained

Norton,
Akron
3120 Greenwich Road, Norton
July 1st, 9am till 6 pm
mrdakes@neo.rr.com
It's
9:00 and me and Dex are here. He is such a good boy, so
well behaved. I think of his life before now and my heart
aches. Man, this chain is heavy, what if I have to go to
the bathroom, what if I get tired of sitting here... 9 hours is
a long time. I am getting a lot of looks, the lady in the
Lexus looked at me like I'm crazy. I know the kind of looks
of disregard that dogs get... I am human with a chain around my
neck in a public park!!!! I think dogs DO think, what
goes thru their minds day after day when people drive by and they
are unacknowledged? It makes me feel very sad and lonely.
Thank
GOD I have Dexter to keep me company. He is so precious,
he loves me, he lays right beside me. He needs me and he
KNOWS I need him. We just had our first visitors from the
Norton Fire Department. 3 very nice people. They took
information, they loved Dex, they asked if there was anything
they could get for me.
I
hope if nothing else, people will understand WHY I am doing this.
Had some more visitors, one guy, he knew nothing about the negatives
of chaining. Jerry B. Came by and donated some money :)
Mike brought me pizza, Dexter loves pizza, he ate that a lot when
he was out alone. Another visitor, Bob's step-mom,
she loved Dexter and the reason I was there.
I
am bothered by how many drive by and don't stop, are they too
busy or just don't care? Got a visit from a boy about 10
or 11 years old. He has a dog, he lives "inside and
out". I wonder why his parents parked out of sight
and didn't join him in talking with me? I feel sad knowing
how many people know I'm here but they are too busy to take 5
minutes out of their day.
Do
I retaliate? When it is time for a fundraiser or reverse
raffle and such? I know $5 won't break people but if so,
does 5 minutes out of the day to show a "friend" your
support really ruin your schedule? I don't think so.
And here lay Dexter, keeping me company, none of which he had
for 6 years but yet he lays content and happy with me. Why
can't people see past their own selfishness and see this?
We
had more visitors, a man, gave me money and took pictures,
said his son sent him but wouldn't say who he was. He was
nice. A lady stopped by and talked for awhile she was nice
too. She wants to call me with addresses of chained dogs :{
More
visitors, they thought I was getting rid of Dex, they took my
information and were happy to hear about my work. They said
they will pass it on. Mike came back, brought me a drink.
I'm so glad I have him. He is very supportive. Still
no sign of my friends, it's such a nice day, everyone is just
too busy. I would not have done anything different today.
This just reaffirms why I do what I do. Still a lot
of traffic and people staring all to busy to ask why. I
just met a nice lady named Cathy. She has a baby named Cozmo...
(10 year old Chihuahua). She brought me water. She
belongs to a group called Neads.org very cool, they train dogs
to assist injured military when they get home from the war.
We
haven't had anymore visits, this puts more of a perspective than
I thought (how can that be). I feel hurt, angry, and upset.
Mike would say get over it so I will try. I know this is
what GOD left me here to do on May 14th, 2005. I'm going
to do the best I can.
This
will be the first day of my opened eyes. Even though I found
DDB 2 years ago, today put a whole new feel to it. Tammy,
Dawn, Kim and everyone, thank you for showing me how to be this
kind of human being and thank you for what you are doing.
GOD Bless,
Marla Dakes
Norton, Ohio



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